Nice guys seem to realize this pattern where girls go after assholes instead of them. They think, "Why can't she see how nice I am and like me instead, if she says that all she wants is a nice guy?"
Well, here's the deal. Some girls say they want nice guys, but that's not always true. In fact, maybe some girls are actually bitches in disguise, pretending they want all that lovey dovey mushy stuff, but going after their perfect matches - the assholes. And these are the kinds of girls that nice guys hang on to, it seems. The bitches. The ones that don't really care about the nice guy, much as they might say they do.
You know what nice guys need? Nice guys need nice girls. That really shy chick in the back of the room with the glasses, that never talks in class, that you've certainly never spoken to, that isn't so hot? Yeah, that one. Go after her, and maybe things will change.
Girls never go for nice guys?
Of course that's a generalization, and not always true. But let's make another one.
Guys never go for nice girls.
That's a generalization too. But maybe it will help all of us realize how much we need to appreciate the nice people in our life. How we shouldn't abuse them, and how we should consider giving them a chance as our SOs. That might change a lot.
Is the problem with nice guys that they never go after nice girls?
Miri
10 years ago
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